Relationships of the Bold & Smart

Instant Coffee Generation / Clueless Generation

Cultures have evolved over centuries whereas generation of today want ‘Instant Coffee Solutions’ in everything from politics to social problems, economic problems and human relationships. Present generation’s next addiction is to instant coffee solutions.

At this pace, they’ll be destroyed from within as they’ve already lost the real foundation of love and goodness that holds a human being in the midst of life…For most of the relationships in this stressed environment, passion withers as time goes by instead of blossoming into something richer and meaningful.

I would like to feel that one always has choices or alternative options suitable to a situation instead of going in the wrong direction in relationships. Or at least it is important to give one’s last shot in dealing with a challenging relationship before giving it up completely or entirely. At least one will not have regrets later about not trying hard enough to save a relationship. But today’s generation wants “Instant Solutions” to fix relationships too and do not realize that changes come gradually and that one has to work at relationships.

Destiny does play a part in breaking relationships. Sometimes clash of personalities, conflicting personalities and cultural differences can make relationships all the more complicated and hard to bear. Sometimes life and circumstances leave no choice but to walk away from a bad relationship because of serious problems. Then one is forced to do so because of circumstances. In such cases,one may not have any choice. But for others there is no excuse for abandoning a relationship...   

Unfortunately, in these modern times relationships have no real and permanent places in peoples' lives as they want to while away time till they find somebody more beneficial to them or they just want to experiment different relationships simultaneously. No wonder they can so easily play with one another’s life and not even feel the slightest bit of remorse or guilt when they break all promises of love and loyalty.

For some, a relationship has become a source of power in the sense that he or she likes to see how far they can rule a person and get that person to do everything for them. Sometimes relationships are of this shade these days where the power of authority rests with one person alone and thus imbalances the relationship between two individuals. Instead of truly being life partners, one person only dictates that relationship and manipulates the spouse endlessly under the threat of separation. This can damage the other person and create a feeling of helplessness and sense of entrapment in the person putting up with it.

Relationships of the Bold and Smart believe in change which means constant change of partners over the time as they get easily bored with one person…Truth and honour have lost it’s meanings in relationships today and nobody seems to obey them anymore.

Today’s generation regards relationships as something that could be given up so easily and so quickly. They fall in love as quickly as they fall out of love. Infact they’re clueless about love…I feel that at times some of them are emotionally challenged…their attitudes cripple them to the extent that they do not want to either commit to anyone at all or they don’t want a long term commitment to start with. Even if they do happen to get involved with anyone, they want to walk out on it soon enough as they can’t face the thought of something so real, where reality expects them to deal with occurrences of challenges in a relationship.

Most of today’s generation can’t handle the truth of real relationships where everything is certainly not a bed of roses… The relationships of the Instant Coffee Generation do not actually honour the truth and vows exchanged between two people in love.